The continued development of the information age makes us as parents to be extra vigilant against the dangers of pornography that can poison our children. As we know, the existence of the internet, pornography is now not only accessible from the print media, but also from the Internet, where the media is often escape from parental supervision.
One recent study showed that since the arrival of the internet, the average age children begin to recognize the shape of pornography is 8 years old. Whereas before they are new to the internet presence of pornography through the print media ranging from 11 to 13 years. Worse, if pornography allowed to poison our children, the dangers posed would be even greater. So that you are more alert,
The following are some of the effects of pornography can harm our children:
1 The children begin sexual activity
The nature of the children are imitating. They will imitate whatever his views. If pornography poison them, it is quite possible they will make sexual activity they see to the younger children, even weaker peers. If it is allowed, children can become perpetrators of sexual abuse of children, where it is usually caused by two simultaneous namely experience and exposure.
2 Difficulty concentrating
How can the concentration that is in the child's mind is impure thoughts. Not to mention that if children do not understand that there is in the child's brain is a variety of questions about the porn scene or new impressions he saw. Remember this tablet early childhood context. Where there is still a toddler who understands the porn scene? That danger again, when it's embedded in the brain would be very difficult to remove. Why? because sex is a basic human need. Children who have discovered the pleasure of sex before his time and deeply embedded in his mind will be difficult to remove. Sorry for the future while still long, still much needed in his life concentrations
3 The trend of sexual harassment
Know pornography too early also can make a person committed sexual crimes such as sexual harassment.? 77% of perpetrators of abuse against boys, and 87% of women of child abusers admitted to viewing pornography habits that drive their criminal actions.
4 Capturing the wrong message
Pornography can cause the wrong message to young people on their relationships later. They will assume that the affection between he and his partner were measured by sexual satisfaction they can achieve. This is due to the nature of pornography itself that exposes sexuality without responsibility.
Example: Children can not be so confident, why? Because he saw the frame of the rise of TV shows or even the surrounding environment, "if you want a beautiful and had many friends ya have to dress open", "closed dress squirt if not slang, rustic". Tomorrow-tomorrow kid his PD will appear when the scantily clad and open.
5. Increased jumalah teen pregnancy
Sexual acts were witnessed by children, as well as sex drive naturally owned subsidiary, will make their own curious to then perform the sexual act. If this is the case, pregnancy outside of marriage at an early age is very likely to occur.
A study penyebutkan that boys that were exposed by pornography before the age of 14 years will be more active sex addiction even adulthood. And research shows that among 932 sex addicts in carefully, as many as 90% of men and 77% of women admit that pornography plays a major role in their addiction.
Once the dangers of pornography, which is not only for your child at this time, but also for their future life, it takes control of you, so that your children are not poisoned by pornography in the age should not be. So from now on, accompany your children when they want to watch TV, play on the internet, or choose a reading for her.
6 Sexual Deviations
Toddler or young children who have not had time to see a scene or show the intimate relationship of husband and wife or other pornographic -tanyangan impressions, and not caught parents that do not directly given insight (with a language that is easy to understand kids of course) when adulthood may develop irregularities sexual, because in the mind of the child's squalid scene, sick, sinister etc ...
Addiction is a condition where the brain physically and chemically forcing a person to do a particular behavior without the involvement of mind or conscience. But because of the strength of the limbic system of the brain (one of the systems in the brain structure) and the capacity to overshadow the moral and rational part of the brain, many people who claim that pornography is normal behavior or as mere entertainment.
Basically, the only difference between drug addiction, such as heroin or cocaine with pornography is the way to enter the system. Brain response to information received through the eyes faster than from any other source. Visual information is processed in the limbic system within nanoseconds (ten rank minus nine seconds). This is why addiction to pornography becomes a big problem.
Visual information is processed more quickly than other sensory information, even though heroin or cocaine response is much slower. In addition to the visual, the hormone oxytocin also plays a role in addiction to pornography. Oxytocin can create a sense of unity and togetherness during sexual intercourse.
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