The status and role of the family in children's lives is primary and fundamental. Family into a formation of each of its members, including children who are still under the guidance of their parents responsibility. Child development generally includes physical, social emotional and intellectual. The soul can be said to be a healthy child if the child's developmental aspects of walking in harmony and harmony.
The development of one's soul there are periods or stages, that if at any period can not be passed in harmony then there will be a showing symptoms such as delay, tension, difficulty adjustment disturbed personality. The worst effects of the development process that fails is the inability to duty as social beings to conduct a satisfactory human relations both for themselves and for the people in his neighborhood.
The family as the smallest entities in the community but has kept his primary position and a major role in influencing a child's life, especially in the early stages and the critical stages. Families who fail to give love and attention to foster hatred, insecurity and violence. When one of the family in education, would plunge the child down the wrong path. One of the wrong education is spoiling the child.
Factors that cause parents spoil their children
1. Parents first have a bitter life experience and poor that he does not want her children from a difficult situation.
2. Parents have a less precise concept of happiness. For example, please follow the child with all the requests.
3. The child's parents previously spoiled by her parents as well so the experience was passed down to his son now.
4. Busy parents do not have time for children. The old man felt guilty, so obey all demand the attention of the child as a substitute parent.
5. Parents who distinguish their children. Children who feel treated unfairly be disappointed. Children will protest in various forms of delinquency.
Family be the first educational needs of a child. How families or parents in educating children, will determine. Because education in principle is to lay the foundation and direction for a child. Families have a role in the personal growth and development of a child.
Good education given family will develop personal maturity of the child. The child becomes an independent, full responsibility for the tasks and duties, respect for others and live according to the dignity of human beings and its image. Instead of education can result in the development of children's personalities are not good.